Why most people quit right before they start winning...


In today’s edition, we explore why milestones can be more important than the big goals, especially in sales. Every year I remind myself: progress is built in steps, not in leaps. Inspired by David Goggins’ mindset lessons, we’ll break down how small wins, high standards, and brutal honesty drive sales growth.

Let’s dig in.


Hello Reader,

Every year, I like to pause and reflect – a lesson I took away from David Goggins' book, Can’t Hurt Me. It’s a great opportunity to look back on what was achieved, what wasn’t, what was done well, and what can be improved.

And this year, I got to thinking…

In sales, we’re wired to chase the next big number, the next deal, the next finish line.

But what I’ve learned (and what David Goggins preaches) is this: if you don’t stop to track your milestones, you burn out.

You miss how far you’ve come. And worse you think you’re failing because that’s how it feels not being where you wanted to be. But the reality is that you’re actually growing.

In his book Can’t Hurt Me, Goggins teaches that most people only tap into 40% of their potential because they quit too soon. They don’t push far enough.

They miss the small wins because they’re obsessed with the finish line. But the small wins are what compound to take you to the finish line.

So growth isn’t just about the big goal. It’s about building a mentality where you measure progress and honour the small wins.

That’s how you build resilience. That’s how you stay in the game. That’s how you sell when it’s hard.

Now let’s look at why and how these milestones matter in sales:

In sales (and in life), focusing on milestones is a game-changer, because it reminds you of how far you’ve come, especially when it feels like you’ve been standing still.

Small wins build momentum.
Each meeting booked, each conversation had, each follow-up completed… these are wins. Stack and track them because they will build your confidence and progress.

Big goals without milestones feel overwhelming.
If your only target is the annual revenue number, you’ll feel like you’re losing most of the time. Break it down: weekly meetings booked, daily calls made, small targets hit.

Brutal self-reflection drives growth.
Goggins calls this the accountability mirror. Look into the mirror and be honest with yourself. What can you improve and how can you do better? Check your own performance honestly. Where did you quit early? Where can you step up?

Standards are more powerful than goals.
Goals are your desired outcomes. But standards are your behaviours. Now, it isn't easy to control your goals because they are future outcomes – you can’t control what happens in the future after all. But you can control your behaviour – in other words, your standards. And if your standards are always high, they will compound over time, giving you a higher chance of actually reaching your goal.

How to Use Milestones in Your Sales Process: 4 Simple Moves

  1. Set daily activity targets.
    Instead of focusing on revenue goals, focus on habits. Build up your routine so it becomes second nature – and the results will compound over time.
  2. Track and celebrate weekly wins.
    Review what you did well each week. Log the conversations, the new connections, the small progress points. You can also use that as a number you want to beat the next week.
  3. Use visible scoreboards.
    What gets measured gets managed. Track your pipeline milestones somewhere you can see them. This helps you stay aware of where you’re ahead, and where you’re slipping, which will keep you on track.
  4. Do the accountability mirror.
    Ask: Where am I falling short? Where am I coasting? Where can I push harder?

Again, the compound effect takes place. If you do all these things above, you’ll find:

  • It builds resilience. You keep going because you see progress.
  • It creates consistency. Daily standards become weekly wins.
  • It taps into your untapped potential.
  • It stops you from quitting when you’re closer than you think.

And each of these points will compound over time as well, only bringing you closer to the main goal.

So this is a reminder that time is moving, whether we like it or not. And it helps one realise that if you only focus on the finish line, you’ll miss how far you’ve come.

So here’s my advice: Celebrate your milestones. Track the small wins. Push your standards higher.

And remember what Goggins says:
Nobody’s coming to save you.”
So put in the work and save yourself.

Happy reflecting,
James


How would you rate this edition?

🤏🏻 So-So

🙂 🙂 Useful

🎩 🎩 🎩 Top Drawer!

James White

The Sales and Business Development newsletter that is targeted at Ambitious Business Owners who sell high value services and who want to drive Sales Growth. I share EVERYTHING you require to LEARN buyer behaviours, ATTRACT more clients and GROW your business in less than 4 minutes per week. Current subscribers gain ideas and insights to save time and implement practical tips to grow their business. Why not join them?

Read more from James White

In today’s edition, we dive into why salespeople don’t feel confident handling objections and how training yourself like an athlete can turn objections from scary roadblocks into opportunities. Like a fire drill, objection handling is a skill built through repetition and preparation. Let’s explore how to build that confidence and close more deals. This week's suggested resource: Handling Objections Effectively Hello Reader, What would you do if the fire alarm sounded in your office? Some...

In today’s edition, we explore why the majority of buyers say salespeople don’t understand their business, and how that’s costing you sales. We dig into how tailored conversations build trust, relevance, and ultimately win more deals. Hello Reader, Imagine you’re buying a suit for an important event, and you have two options. You can get a tailored suit, meticulously crafted to your exact measurements. Every seam fits perfectly, the shoulders align just right, and the sleeves fall exactly...

In today’s edition, we dive into why buyers often take longer than you expect to say yes. We’ll explore how big decisions trigger fear and hesitation, not disinterest, and why patience, empathy, and smart follow-up are your best tools to keep deals moving forward. Hello Reader, Imagine you’ve just found your dream house. The location is perfect. The garden is beautiful. It ticks all your boxes. Yet, even though you love it, you hesitate. You don’t say yes right away. Because… Buying a house...